SOME LIKE IT HOT: TEMPERATURE GAMES DURING SEX
Hot, hot baby! Temperature play is a sexual practice that is counted as BDSM. It involves the use of heated or cooled objects and substances to heighten sensual sensations. How you can discover this kind of love play for yourself in a simple way, you will learn in the following.
This Is Why Temperature Play Can Be Arousing
In temperature play, the power play can play an exciting role. As usual in BDSM, one partner takes on the dominant role, while the other submissively submits. The submission often manifests itself in the fact that the passive partner is tied up or at least restricted in his freedom of movement. The submissive is then teased with cold and warm toys and liquids. These touches are often perceived by the passive partner as tingling pleasure pain. We have picked out a few soft variations of temperature play for you to start with, which you can simply try out solo or together with a partner.
Ideas For Temperature Play For Beginners
#Humid Start
Turn warm or cold liquids into your toy. All you need is a regular massage oil. Place the oil (in its packaging) briefly in a warm water bath to warm it up or in the refrigerator to cool it down. If you want a lasting warming effect, you can also use a warming massage oil.
Before you start playing with the liquid, test the temperature on the back of your hand. You can then drizzle the warm massage oil over the other person’s back like warm wax from a candle – the perfect introduction to a stimulating massage. You can drizzle the cooled oil over the nipples or inner thighs. These erogenous zones are especially sensitive to cold. Don’t forget to put a towel under you so that no oil gets on the furniture.
#Cold Hands, Hot Balls.
A simple ice pack can be very versatile. For example, you can use it to cool down your own hands, making manual labor even more exciting. Hold the testicles in one hand while the other hand pampers the penis shaft.
A tip for the men! Warming up the testicles can feel incredibly tingly while masturbating and intensify the solo. To do this, you can hold the balls in a warm water bath or against a warm (not hot!) heater. Just stimulate the penis shaft and enjoy the experience.
#Warm Words
It can be exciting to warm up your mouth before oral sex. How. By drinking a cup of warm tea. With peppermint tea, you can make oral lovemaking even more exciting. Mint adds a tingling, cooling effect to the warm tea water.
Remember: Drink the tea unsweetened, sugar can lead to a fungal infection of the intimate mucous membranes.
#A Touch Of Sensuality
Warm air, namely breathing air that gently caresses the skin, can be very arousing – especially on the neck, in the loin area or around the nipples. Feel free to blindfold or tie each other up for this game, it will surely not leave your submissive playmate cold.
#Heat And Cool Sex Toys
Some sex toys – such as glass or metal – are great for temperature play because they can store heat and cold well. Put the toy in the refrigerator for a short time or place it in a water bath to warm it up. Before inserting the toy, test the temperature and sensation on another part of your body.
#The Warm Shaft
During sex, pull your penis out of her*him again and again and immerse the best piece in a warm (not hot!) water bath. Alternatively, you can also use warm oil. Now penetrate her*him again. The warmth of the penis promotes blood circulation. This in turn increases her*his arousal and makes sex even more intense for the other.
#RoomTemperature
Room temperature can be a great way to play with the senses, especially when the weather outside is extremely cold or incredibly hot. Making love on cool tiles in the height of summer or on a cozy rug in winter, in front of a warm heater, offer a fiery dash for intimate adventures.
#Wax Games
Wax play is one of the more popular BDSM practices that incorporates heat into play. You can’t use just any candle for this. Depending on the ingredients, conventional candles can heat up to 80 degrees, making them unsuitable for temperature play. Soy candles (46-57 degrees), kerosene candles (47-65 degrees) and beeswax candles (62-65 degrees), for example, are suitable for wax play.
Beginners can first explore the wax game with a massage candle. These special candles become liquid massage oil after lighting, which is warm but not hot. The oil can then be slowly dribbled onto the body of the other person and then pampered with a warming massage.
Safety First During Temperature Play
To avoid unpleasant feelings during temperature play, test the hot and cold objects as well as substances beforehand on a part of the body, such as the back of the hand. Temperature games should be avoided on injured skin areas. If you still tie yourself up or blindfold yourself to play with the temperature, establish a few rules. In our article Safeword & Co. you will find practical tips for safe BDSM play.
