FACESITTING: KEEP CONTROL DURING ORAL SEX

What Is Facesitting And How Does It Work?

Facesitting is a variant of oral sex in which the woman sits on the partner’s face. This way she can completely set the rhythm and determine pressure. Cunnilingus is the easiest method for most women to reach orgasm, because the tongue can stimulate the clitoris especially well.

As an oral sex variant, it is a real workout to boot. To regulate the intensity, the thigh muscles are also in demand. In order for the giving partner to get enough air, some pressure must always be taken off the face in between. So facesitting requires a certain amount of trust.

In the BDSM scene, dominatrix facesitting is a popular way to control the partner. However, oral sex does not always have to take place. It can also be exciting for both partners to try out the game of power and submission.

Types, Positions & Techniques:

There are many different types of facesitting. We have compiled the five most popular ones. The techniques are suitable for both hetero and lesbian couples.

Gentle Facesitting

The principle is very simple. The woman sits on the partner’s face so that the knees are to the left and right of the head. The vulva is placed on the partner’s mouth and off she goes! With gentle facesitting, she supports herself against the bed in the best case and can help steer with light movements.

Hard Facesitting

Here she sits with her full body weight on the face of the cunnilingus performing partner. This version is also known as Fullweight Facesitting. The stronger pressure can stimulate the clitoris even more intensively. Tip: It’s best to make up a signal that the licking partner gives when he*s gasping for air.

Bound Facesitting

This version is also a bondage game. The partner’s hands are tied to the bed. Bound facesitting is perfect for exciting power games and total control. But again, set a safeword or gesture that your partner can use to signal ‘stop’.

Reverse Facesitting

She sits on the partner’s face in such a way that she is looking at her feet. This way she can also become active and give oral sex in the 69 position.

Jeanssitting

It doesn’t always have to be about oral satisfaction. Whether you’re in jeans or leggings, for many people it’s simply arousing to have control by sitting on your partner’s face.

Tip For The Experienced

Facesitting doesn’t have to be limited to cunnilingus. By gently sliding back and forth, the anus can also be extensively pampered. Tightening and relaxing the buttocks muscles also has a stimulating effect during licking. The intensity can be rhythmically adjusted by slightly lifting and again increasing the pressure of the vulva, on the mouth.